I had another big fight with my 'friends' from the bowling alley again... i won't give details, but i told someone something i promised not to tell, and i just so happened to tell the wrong person,and i didn't even know i wasn't supposed to tell this person-- i thought they eprson already knew....i wasn't around when everyone found out i told this person[this afternoon], and before i could clarify myself, it was too late[they all IM'd me to start trouble a little over an hour ago]... everyone was agaisnt me, and refused to listen to my side of the story, what REALLY happened... I'm quitting coaching at the bowling alley, because no one wants to see the likes of me around there anymore [the coaches, at least!] After the school team ends this year, i'm switching bowling alleys, to the other one on Staten Island. I'm also blocking all of them off my buddy list.
Until I sort this out, I'll be gone here too.. it shouldn't take more than a day or two, but, just in case, everyone knows where i am. I won't be answering emails 'till i solve this all, either. I just don't want anyone to worry, or for me to accidentally take out any anger towards them on here
Mark, finally....glad you are leaving that bowling alley and THEM and blocking them from your communications!!!!
But a wee bit of advice?!.....If you made a promise not to tell something that was told to you in confidence, then YOU DON'T TELL. Even if you think another person might know. That is gossip, and it is the most distructive thing on earth, and tears people apart!!!! Remember that lesson!!!!
We'll all be waiting right here for you when you get back!
Merme
We were given two hands to hold, two eyes to see, two ears to listen & two legs to walk. But why were we given only one heart? The other heart was given to another for us to find.
oh mark i'm sorry.... some days seem to be like that for all of us at the same time
and the worst is when something you say is twisted, added too, and then repeated out of order. and something someone else says is attributed to you and you didn't say that. hang in there, and know we love you
I don't think I can add to everyone's advice. They have pretty much said it all, and said it well. But I agree---we will be here waiting for your return. take care, Mark.
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I know exactly what you mean Mark, good luck with this! Friends can be the best people in the world, but they also hurt the most at times
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But I'm just getting blamed for soemthing that had no relation to me now. I found out more of what "really" happened when i wasn't there: the kid that i told, that i thought told everyone, didn't tell anyone! someone who knew that i knew about the thing i wasn't supposed to tell told everyone, and all the blame, because i was the newest one to learn about it, on me! I was framed! Lied to! Whateveryouwannacallit! as far as i know, which i think is true, my friend didn't tell anyone... he kept his word... did i tell you that the person i told, and the person that it's about, are brother and sister? That's why i thought the brother[whom i told] had a right to know... WEll, they're on vacation for the weekend[we have off for the jewish holiday- i won't attempt to spell], and should be back saturday. until then, there's nothin i can do except sit back and wait,,
My uncles in law is head of a huge corporation that he started himself 35 years ago - it has always flourished. One of the things he says, Mark, is that if someone comes to him and says I'm going to tell you something and don't tell anyone else that he says "then don't tell me." He's not going to be reponsible for keeping secrets. If you tell him something it's up for grabs. That's a good way to live.
I want to update again, but this has nothing to do with the above. Just s'more friends down the drain
i'm going to copy/paste exactly what i said from a instand message from my friend, to save me the trouble of retyping, so i apologize for al lthe grammitcal errors
Well, what happened, is i had these two other frieds... that i've known for only about a month. well, anyway, here;s what happened:
well first she ims me and we starting talking.. then all of a sudden fiting with me,,, then next its her 'dad' talking to me yelling at me.. nd so did her friend which ive beentalkin to... so im fiting with her "dad" but her dad has the exact same grammer as her so obviously it was her da hole time but now she 'comes back' and pretends like nothing happened... sayin her dads at work or somethin... so did her friend, pretend like nothing happened.. so im talkin to thm nd i ask wut happened.. nd i sent them all the convos and theire like wtf u made al ltht up i hate u dont talk to me even though it was them the hole times trying to make me suffer then they ask if i like the girl still because she duunt like me nd she wants me to get over her im like no i dunt like her i dunt like [censor] so we're fiting again... nd now they sayin tht they were enver friends with me
that's basically what happened.. sorry again for the many erros... that's how i talk in instant messages :Lol: But i'm mad now, because i hate when people d othat, pretend like nothing ever happened... and now niehter of them are talking to me, or want to... people like doing this to me... they just needed an exsuce to tell me that they don't want to talk to me.. basiaclly al lthats left on my buddy list [on aim] is my friends from school group :Lol:
as im reading this back right now, i can see al lthe typos other than those in the instant messages... there's too many for me to correct right now, so i hope everyone can bear with me, and understand it all
I'm sorry, Mark. those girls don't sound very nice ... maybe it is better if they aren't your "friends"?
We were given two hands to hold, two eyes to see, two ears to listen & two legs to walk. But why were we given only one heart? The other heart was given to another for us to find.
With friends like that, who needs enemies???? Be kind to dumb animals they say........If they act like that, you would get a nasty reputation being with them. Immature for sure.......Just keep smiling an they will wonder what your up to.
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