I'm lucky here I think, it's still like that.....I live in a very rural small town of 3,000 people and it's pretty quiet...not much crime...no shootings ever at all....there were a few robberies last year but basically this is still a really safe, friends with your neighbors, kind of place.
My neighbor to the left of me is an older woman that gardens and we meet up almost everyday when it's nice at the fence.....have a chat, she gives my niece candy and icecreams...we swap plants....complain about the weather, town mayor, etc....