http://vric.ucdavis.edu/veginfo/commodity/garden/crops/squashsm.pdfI've never hand pollinated anything but I am a biologist. This site/document looks to be very informative. Among the things it says is that:
* male
flowers bloom earlier than female, and that
* female
flowers are recognizable (in comparison), but the presence of a very small, immature "fruit" at the base of the
flower. (It's not really a fruit at this stage, it's an ovary-- the part of the female
flower than contains the ovules, which are the female sex cells are located.)
So, I am thinking that one efficient and less tedious way to hand pollinate would be to pluck the male
flower at its base and then gently peel the pedals back, exposing the anthers (sticking up parts), which produce and contain the pollen (=male sex cells). Then just shake or lightly rub the anthers over or on the sigma (top part of the sticking up part) of the female
flowers. I don't even think the ratio of male to female would need to be 1:1-- one male might have enough pollen for more than one female.
SEX ED:
This site (
http://www.enchantedlearning.com/subjects/plants/printouts/floweranatomy.shtml) has a pretty decent picture of a "typical"
flower. The
flower pictured has both male and female reproductive organs, put the principles are the same for
flowers of only one sex. The stigma (female) is usually a bit sticky. Pollen (male) is very small. By some means-- bees, wind, physical contact-- the pollen gets on top of the stigma. Pollen on the stigma triggers the female plant to produce pollen tubes in the style (the part that holds up the stigma). The pollen goes down the pollen tubes into the ovary which contains the ovules (female sex cells). Boom! Pollination!!
The "fruit" (squash, etc.) we harvest is actually a matured ovary. The
seeds inside the fruit are the fertilized ovules.
When you think of it, fertilization in plants isn't a whole lot different than in humans!