When I was a child, as a family we went to where my Grandmother & Uncle were buried. All or most of my family would be there.
Then we would come home & have a family and pr friend BBQ party.
Now days we go to various cemeteries before Memorial Day, & the day of we do not a lot of anything. Once in awhile we might have a small BBQ meal.
This year it is my turn to put the flowers
on my father's grave for Memorial Day.