Zelinda,
You wrote;
You all may think I'm a dork,
NEVER!!!!!!! We love

people that go to great lengths to help their
plants out!
And when diagnosing a problem, that is the

best way to help in it's diagnosis.
VERY HELPFULL INDEED!!!
You sound like you've done everything quite good!
And sounds like they are doing great, especially for being in pots and being 4ft tall!
(You will have to tell us how you keep them upright and stable when they are in the pots!

)
I think your
plant is just succuming to age of a annual, they are just that.... they do only live and/or produce for a certain amount of time...
some may get a longer
growing season because of their climate/
zone... but there is a time limit to the
plant???
Also, maybe a touch of heat.....????? Is your weather really warm out there?
Maybe the heat on the outside of the container *what kind is the container anyways???*
may have a bit of effect on them from the heat on the "outside" of the container....where the roots would be touching the inside of the container....
I know Papito is into container gardening, maybe he may have a bit more advice for "container's"??
Hopefully he'll be thru in a bit!
Weezie
Keep us posted!!!
And by the way, those are my two most favoritest tomatoes! (Beefsteak and Beefmaster's too)