I grow onions and to what I`ve read with my experience is to bend over some but not all the greens and mostly don`t let them go to
seed. You will know when you see a big ball
growing on top of the greens.
When ALL the greens fall over the onions stop
growing and time to harvest reguardless of size.
Great thing is you can tie them in a bunch afterword to let them cure (outer layer get flacky). Kept in a cool\dry place they`ll keep for several months.
You can put off a green onion without hurting the
plants and are tastey but a bit on the hot side.
Hope that helps.